what it is, and what it isn't. take a look at this and the afterlifetv with Bob Olson

the best way to explain exactly what a reading should and should not be. the first two minutes tho explains it the best-- i like this because it explains exactly what things are and do and what to expect and not expect. the first two minutes is exactly how i explain what it is and what it does. --

a. if the person you are talking to giving a reading is not recognizing what you are saying to her/him, you might as well be lying. If the person you are reading is doing their nails or fixing the dishwasher, it may not go as well as expected, as they are not tuned in at all, their direction is elsewhere.-- just be present if you are sitting for a reading. smile emoticon

b. this is why people should take notes and get a photo or something after their reading-- to review after wards, they should be valid for at least two months. nobody should need readings every week. if someone tells you every week, that's way too much.

c. hypothetical questions are exactly that. Q "Should I quit my job?" A Do you like or hate your job? lol, people have free will. they can do what they wanna do and most of the time they do exactly that, which may cause a different outcome. you don't need a psychic to tell you what you already know for sure, but just to verify your feeling on it.--- if your job sucks and you hate it there and you want to quit, that is your free will. nobody should tell you things like that, that would make you lose money! -- and because that's not being beneficial to the best interest to yourself, it's not really ethical to tell folks to quit their job and just be unemployed!-- do you see how this can get tricky?

d. should we look in people's windows at night? no, probably not because it's an invasion of privacy, and kind of not nice even if you don't mean them any harm...they still sense you doing it, kind of like a peeping tom... should we look at people because other people ask us to, or should we just stick to that person who you are reading ?- some people don't wanna be looked at, that's why their shades are down-- it's the same thing. if you wouldn't do it in the real world doing it psychically or remotely isn't really ethical either, unless it's a dire circumstance.... ie missing person, missing child, crime, etc.. some people want to be private, that's why their shades are down, they want privacy. this is no different in the real than in the other world. why would it be?

e. some people aren't going to click. that's true no matter what walk of life you are in. - no matter what job you are in.-- this is no different.

f. nobody is 100% 100% of the time. this is true for any job, or any life. nobody is perfect last i checked. certainly not me.

g. sometimes the info isn't til later, or in the future and you might take it as the past.- or current or vice versa. the no time vault of information has no concept of time. we only do because someone made it up. humans can only interpret things they actually understand completely. if you don't speak spanish, you need a translator, and if you can't find a translator, you might not understand all the info.

h. this is not a be all end all. you have free will totally and completely to direct your life in however you see fit. this may change your reading outcome as early as that day, or the next 10 minutes, and say, the future is not set in stone-- which is actually a great thing at times... so happy readings and stay positive, for the best and the highest out come!